Monday, August 13, 2012

Only child vs The sociopath

Having thought about the conversation that took place Saturday evening for several hours now, I've come up with this thought.  What appears to be playing out is a sociopathic personality attempting to live with an only child.  Two individuals who are solely or mostly consumed with themselves and/or what they want without regard for the other.  This is true more so for the sociopath as they are constantly in search of what they deem to be fun, at least for themselves and care not for the feelings of the other.  The only child can't understand why they are not the center of this persons universe or why they are not able to get what they want from the other.

Two individual train wrecks taking place at the same place and time and neither understands why this is happening to them.  How could this possibly turn out well for anyone involved including me?  What I see happening is the Tick continuing to perform as they have in the past, getting the same outcome as always and having no idea why I want them out of my immediate life.

Funny thing is that this person made the statement last eve that if they came into money, they would just disappear and might contact us once a year.  When I turned that situation around the impact could be heard in Europe.  Funny how what works for us would not work for them.  I guess this was one major tell as to the true person sitting across from me.  While this might never change, my involvement in it will.

If this all plays out as I suspect it will then the tick will collect their things, bring it back to my house and pickup where they left off.  Never caring for what they have done to the significant other or how their lack of responsibility impacts my life.  This too will change as I've said before.  The revolving door is going to be replaced by the cold hard steel of reality.  While the Olympics may be over, the games are yet to begin.

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